Perfectly Tired Out

Oh how quickly memories can rush back.


From a twist of events, I’m hosting the next turn of the Kaleidoscope of Creative Connections looking at Rest.

Mulling for inspiration there begins an inner poke to make a new banner.


OK fine.

After all, that needs to be done too.

And nothing is leaping forward out of the mulling juices.


Working on a design idea with limited options (and skills) for graphics tools, I found myself starting to squirm.

There’s no easy way to align the yellow icons along the bottom or ensure equal spacing between each one.

Time to abandon ship and search for another program to use?


Images of Mexico flash through my head.

Shower tiles to be specific.

I know immediately the connection to Rest making weird perfect sense.


Let me explain.


Zip back to 2004 and another strange turn of events led us to an off-the-tourist-beaten path to a colonial B&B in Patzcuaro, Mexico.

The architecture was amazing, the greenery tropical and the tile work spectacularly annoying.

Not only were the grout lines uneven, many of the square tiles were on their way to becoming diamonds.

Floors, walls, counters – anything tiled was crooked.


Rest In Imperfection


My brain kicked into overtime searching to identify every flaw from floor to ceiling and wall to wall.

“Come on,” I’m thinking.

“I’ve tiled a bathtub surround. Straight lines aren’t that difficult with the help of a level and a few spacers.

How could so much be out of alignment.”


The obsession my mind had was in itself mind boggling.

I was getting increasingly annoyed with being so annoyed.


Then about day three hit and something clicked, or more accurately – something let go.

They were just tiles.

They stopped water from soaking the walls.

Feelings of frustration and annoyance transitioned into a sense of freedom and peace of true rest.


I stopped searching for perfection in an imperfect world.


Imperfection was blatant wherever we traveled in Mexico.

Mish-mash seemed to be the over-riding principle behind many streetscapes and communities.

And they worked just fine.

The more things looked as they were supposed, the less I saw.

Rather than seeing the surface, I began to see what was really there – the people, the interactions, the motion of Life.


Control and perfection give a false sense of security while expending great energy.

Making things just right takes a lot of work.

We can’t find time to rest if we have to ensure everything last thing is as we believe it should be.


Giving Life some wiggle room to be a little crooked here and a little messy there creates the room to let our guard down and sink fully into the rest we longingly seek.




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Lorraine Watson - on rustic porch

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Crazy for cats and potatoes, Lorraine's insatiable curiosity of Life leads her to question, explore and push beyond the box. A self-professed "left-brained creative big picture" type, she has an intuitive knack for seeing beyond and beneath first appearances while at the same time nerding out on the details. Most of all she sees and holds others in their highest until they can see it for themselves.


  1. Sam on June 24, 2014 at 1:16 pm

    love how you let go of the imperfections and of how things ‘should’ be
    it opens our eyes to so much when we just let it be

    • Lorraine on June 26, 2014 at 7:39 pm

      Yes, seeing what really is a far better way to connect into the richness and vibrancy of Life.

  2. Shan on June 25, 2014 at 4:52 pm

    Wow Lorraine, just WOW! No wonder it took a while to write this. This post sang to me big time. Not just in terms of the rest and peace we gain when allowing things to be imperfect, but also when we allow people, particularly those we love, to be the same. This is a HUGE message to me that comes at a perfect time. What a glorious way to have it delivered. Thank you so much! xxx

    • Lorraine on June 28, 2014 at 6:39 pm

      Yes, always an adventure when there’s that feeling of ‘you can’t push a rope’ and waiting to see when inspiration sparks with what.

      Glad this post arrived at the perfect time with all its imperfections to be exactly what you needed right now.

  3. Lane Therrell on June 30, 2014 at 11:58 am

    Thank you for reminding me that imperfection IS perfection, and that I can rest comfortably in that knowledge.

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